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A 12-week program to quit unwanted habits for good
If you're ready to jump into a program where I will teach you step-by-step how to let go of old habits that no longer serve you, schedule your free 30-minute consultation now.
Procrastination
Disorganization
Stress eating
Impulsive spending
Hair pulling
Skin picking
Nail biting
Chronic people-pleasing
"Bad" relationships
Angry outbursts
You are not alone!
If you, like so many of my clients, feel stuck in a self-defeating cycle, frustrated with these behaviors or patterns, but you just can't seem to stop, you've come to the right place.
Let me guess...
You tried to quit, but you didn't have the energy to sustain the changes.
You Googled suggestions for help, but those didn't pan out either.
You talked to a few friends or family (the nice ones), but they didn't seem to understand your situation.
That one hack you found was kind of helpful at first, but it didn't take long for you to fall back into your old patterns.
Something keeps getting in the way, but you're not sure what it is.
You desperately want to break free from this habit so that you can spend more time and energy the things that are actually important to you.
You're tired of the how this habit shows up in your body - uncomfortably tight clothes, sore or aching muscles, embarrassing thin or bald spots, painfully chewed-up nails, or scabs that just won't heal.
Or you're frustrated with your impulse-spending and every time you see your drained bank account you wonder "where did all my money go?!"
Or maybe you're on thin ice at work because you just can't seem to get out the door on time in the morning. You try, but there's always something you can't find when it's time to leave!
And what about the impact on your relationships?
Your friends don't get it.
Your family tells you to "just stop."
You're always irritable, so you snap at your partner, then feel guilty later on.
You worry about the impact this will have on your kids.
You're constantly afraid of what your coworkers think.
You don't like meeting new people because you feel so embarrassed.
You left your home on time and miraculously got to work 10 minutes early!
Then, when you passed the donuts in the break room, you felt tempted, but you were able to take a deep breath and walk away without one.
As you handed over a file to a colleague, you noticed your nails, and relief instead of embarrassment washed over you as saw how nicely manicured they were. (No short, scraggly, stubby nails here!)
Later in the day, while checking your email, you saw an incredible discount for some killer shoes at your favorite boutique, but you were able to gently remind yourself that it wasn't in your budget this month and move on.
You came home from a long day at work and could just relax without pulling your hair or picking your skin?
In the evening, when your partner made a comment that didn't sit right with you, you were able to calmly tell them how it made you feel without blowing up or losing sleep over it?
When you lay down to sleep at night, you reflect back on the day and you feel so proud of yourself for putting in the work to regain control of your life.
Do you want to feel the freedom of being able to harness your emotions?
Are you ready to experience the peace of being in control of your behavior?
If you want to learn more about how you can achieve this,
schedule a free consultation now!
You are not crazy, damaged, or beyond help.
The truth is - all of these unwanted behaviors or habits can show up when we get stressed or out of balance. The key to changing the behavior is identifying triggers, managing stressors, learning other regulation tools, and practicing self compassion along the way.
You might think that you can't quit because you haven't been able to yet, but I'm here to tell you that your past experience has absolutely nothing to do with the future that is possible for you.
Up to this point, you've struggled only because you haven't been given the right tools. Or you've been given some of the right tools, but you need the complete set to finish the job. (That's where I can help!)
The truth is - You're simply dysregulated and relying on old coping tools that have worn out their welcome. With the strategies I teach, you can change your behavior and start to use new coping tools that you actually feel good about.
In this coaching program, you'll explore the why behind your behavior, learn actionable tools for change, and get freedom from the negative emotions around the behavior.
By the end of the 12-week program, you'll have a customized, completely unique Breakthrough Blueprint with daily step-by-step instructions to achieve lasting freedom from your unwanted behavior.
You'll explore the why behind your behavior, learn actionable tools for change, and get freedom from the negative emotions around the behavior.
You'll learn the benefits of shifting your focus away from quitting and towards a concept I call "crowding out" the unwanted behavior.
By the end of the 12-week program, you'll have a customized, completely unique Breakthrough Blueprint with daily step-by-step instructions to achieve lasting freedom from your unwanted behavior.
“I was impressed with your advice. You have so much knowledge and wisdom that comes through the suggestions you offer. I felt I really had a resource knowing that I could reach out to you if I was going through a difficult moment. It felt very supportive.”
-Christy
Your Guide to Lasting Freedom From Unwanted Behaviors
Check out the one-of-a-kind program that will help you quit "bad" habits for good, using a customized plan to meet your individual needs
You'll spend 12 weeks learning and practicing concepts to shift your mindset plus strategies to mange any unwanted behavior or pattern.
You'll learn how to get curious about the problem so that you can tackle it effectively, figure out the real reason why it's so hard to stop, and create a customized plan for behavior change.
In the 8 included one-on-one coaching sessions, I'll walk you through my signature process and show you how to make lasting changes.
I'll teach you mindset shifts and strategies to change the behavior and also change how you feel about the behavior, which (as you'll learn) is vital to your success.
I'm not exaggerating when I say this is the game-changer... the piece you've been missing from any of your past professional support programs.
We'll use an app to stay in touch between sessions, which will give you continuous support throughout the program. No more forgetting what you wanted to talk about or how you felt because your next session was too far off! Use this space to ask questions, celebrate successes in real-time, and have ongoing accountability to support your progress along the way.
This program includes 90-day access to the Waking Up app. This is more than just a meditation app! It features a great intro to meditation course, a number of thoughtful series related to theory and day-to-day life (Time Management for Mortals is one of my favorites), and interviews with various contemplatives.
If you find that many of your thoughts contribute to your pain and suffering, these are invaluable tools to shift into a mindset that works for you and supports you.
Each of the 8 coaching sessions will be dedicated to a carefully curated list of topics that my clients have found particularly helpful.
Module 1: Understand the Behavior
We'll explore why you keep going back to this habit, how it's serving you, why it's been so hard to stop, and what your "high risk" situations are.
Module 2: Challenge Your Thoughts
Feeling are always valid, but thoughts aren't always true! We'll talk about what thoughts are holding you back and how you can shift your mindset towards thoughts that are supportive and true.
Module 3: Meet Your Needs
Learn what you need to get your physical and emotional needs met so that you can show up each day ready for positive change.
Module 4: Set Yourself Up For Success
We'll look at baseline regulation tools and discuss the dichotomy of avoidance and growth.
Module 5: But Be Prepared to Surf
I'll guide you in creating a toolbox of regulation strategies to pull from when you're feeling unbalanced or dysregulated.
Module 6: Practice Self-Compassion
Quite possibly the most important module, this is when we'll go over why self-criticism holds you back and how to help all the different parts of you "play nicely" together.
Module 7: Learn, and Learn Again
We'll reflect on what strategies and tangible to-do's tried in the program have been helpful for your specific situation, and how to keep the momentum going or make adjustments where needed.
Module 8: Build Your Breakthrough Blueprint
This is it - the part you've been waiting for! We'll take all the work from the prior modules to build a comprehensive, totally unique plan to guide you through whatever challenges come your way- so that you can leave your old, unwanted habits behind you once and for all.
If you want to talk more about how you can sign up for in this incredible opportunity, schedule a free 30-minute consultation call below.
Get my free guide, Try This Instead: Regulation Strategies to Overcome Unwanted Behaviors! This list will give you plenty of ideas for other coping strategies to use, to help you rely less on the ones you don't want!
Check available dates for my workshop,
5 Common Traps That Sabotage Your Efforts to Change a Habit,
on Eventbrite.
If you don't see a workshop that fits your schedule, email me to set up a one-on-one version!
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